Author: rike jokanan

There is a moment
Called almost. It’s smile or sigh
Unexpectedly—

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Picture borrowed from a good reading: http://thegctv.com/the-power-of-almost/

What Is Money

Not answered questions:
Those to be pinned with meanings
By them questioning—

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Surabaya did sum up my medium-length end-of-year holiday of mine. Hosted by one best friend, this 32-hour visit meant much to me: a lot of chat and enough food.

With this best friend open discussion is a routine. Last night’s discussion while driving around the city was everything about money. We both treat money differently. She is a better financial planner, I am a learner.

We used to be curious about what money truly was. Money discussion had always been a hot topic before and last night we both finally agreed that money can be defined as anything according to the one managing it.

We know different types of friends and their behaviour towards money. There are friends who meticulously count money (stingy), friends who think money is a symbol of welfare (social status), friends who consider money is everything (arrogant), friends who consider money is treasure (stupid), friends who consider money is nothing (careless), friends who don’t believe that money is a thing (maybe almost dead), friends who have little money (poor), friends who constantly borrow money (lazy). Complete experience. 🙂

What is money to us? We both don’t have special place for money at the same time we have special space for money. It is a tool. It is the replaceable at times, the irreplaceable at others. It is what it is with given context. We both agree that a question of “what is money” doesn’t need an accurate answer; it just needs honest response. Answer is too rigid and feels like a reaction; response is more flexible and almost a wisdom. Example? If having money makes us think we are more respectable than others, that is an accurate answer. If having no money makes us think we are less than others, that is an accurate answer. If having money makes us more functional as human beings in some situation, that is an honest response. If having no money makes us less complaining and harder working, that is an honest response.

We both don’t expect to be in forever comfort by having so much money yet don’t want to live uncomfortably because of having not enough money. We simply want to have sufficient amount as what is needed in life.

This visit puts me back on track that “life is just like that” at the same time “life is worth fighting for and beautifully living” with good will and a small touch of power from money.

Before driving me to the airport, she commented on my eyes.

BF: Have you put eyeliner?

Me: No

BF: Told you to always put eyeliner. You have one?

Me: Ya

BF: What colour?

Me: Brown

BF: No, no. Try blue.

Me: (frown on my forehead). I don’t have blue one.

BF: Try this. (handing a blue eyeliner to me)

Me: (reluctantly putting blue eyeliner on both eyes)

BF: Look at that! Brighter eyes! Ok, take it. Wear blue eyeliner more.

Me: Ok, as long as not green that turns me to a green-eyed. How much is it?

BF: I am not selling it to you. A tiny token of friendship. Not everything should be paid with money. Thanks for the birthday gift, too.

Thank you. Happy birthday, Madam Scorpio.

See you again.

Salaam.

Manusia

Learning, life, Poetic, This Person

Manusia mengembarai langit
Manusia menyusuri cakrawala
Tidak untuk menguasainya
Melainkan untuk menguji dirinya
Apakah dia bertahan menjadi manusia,
Tidak untuk hebat kuasa atau perkasa
Melainkan untuk setia sebagai manusia.

(Emha Ainun Nadjib)

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Good morning, Surabaya. You did a lot of moulding to this human being. Thank you!!! 💝

thank you 💝 for making me a human being; I won’t give up moulding this self to be loyal to being humane

On The Move

Off days on the move
Between cities, finding me
Missing one city—

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This evening we sat down in a cafe which is never my favourite to do. A new friend said “Singapore is the least favourite city of mine.” and I didn’t mind. Yet suddenly something knocked on my heart; it triggered me to miss a home.

The orchids that greet me with no complaint. The books that wait for me patiently. The laundry that stand by until I let them sit nicely in the cupboard. The floor that shines after some mopping. The air that hugs me through rain and shine. The warm feeling of safety and security.

How I miss myself in a home which I officially call a home. A weird feeling about Singapore that is truly now to me a home.

See you soon, my humble abode. 💝

Salaam.

missing a pink lily, I’ll get one when I’m home 🙂

Visit

Learning, life, Map It!, Poetic

Garden of the death
Where pray and wish are whispered
To eternity—

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gate to the bathing pool for women; women should at least take ablution before entering the graveyard complex

gate to the graveyard complex of kings of Mataram; visitor can only enter this enclosure by wearing Javanese apparel: *kemben* for female and *surjan* for male

as I didn’t want to wear *kemben*, I preferred not entering the graveyard complex and decided to take some pics (with my bag) under a tropical fruit tree called *kepel* aka *Stelechocarpus burahol*

Friendship

Learning, life, Poetic, Those People

Hello, dear friendship.
This ship is sailing smoothly,
Storms don’t ruin our cruise.

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Four are (fake) backpackers. One is (true) camper. We all sail together in a ship called friendship.

Alfatihah.

💝

a visit to a best friend’s youth center, this woman dedicates her life to accompany those needing support; the main house is for the classes, sitting room and kitchen; the front is a *pendhopo* for bigger discussion group plus tiny *senthong* for library

a visit to a best friend, a Javanese dancer cum lecturer, the wife of a late most well-known puppeteer in the country and the mother of a most sought-after teenage puppeteer in the island 💝 god bless her and family 💗 dear photographer, why do you always block me in group selfie? 🙃

Yuki after playing with my dress 😍 hey, you’ll meet a vet , you’d better watch out 😁

A Few around d’Omah

If a photo album is a figure of speech, below is pars pro toto. Yet figure of speech accuracy is based on the writer’s level of expertise.

beautiful orchid adopted from Mount Merapi

the *omah* behind the orchid is one *omah*

small river dividing one area and the other, flowing clean

every *omah* is a private area; facilities in one *omah* can only be used by the resident of the particular *omah* – if not booking that *omah*, we can’t enjoy the facilities

“bajaj pasti berlalu” 😂 only Indonesian understands

disclaimer: beautiful voice of surrounding, only for those understanding tolerance

a plunge pool in the *Omah* *Camat* 💝 small pool to plunge when the head is hot 😊

*wayang geber* at the verandah of *Omah Krisna*

Feel Good

Learning, Map It!

Don’t let anything and anyone be a happiness snatcher even if they hurt you unintentionally or intentionally.

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Feel good is successfully deciphering the codes in my life.

final hunt of interior doors and window done!

4 windows, 3 doors – not easy to find lovable ones in tact in high quality; thanks to an antique collector who is willing to let go off his collection to me 🙏🏼

Green Backyard

Learning, life, Map It!, Those People

The green yard behind
Is where greets and smiles soft-land
On the plate and glass.

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Jiwa Jawi’s my backyard – found that the owner is a good friend of my best friend’s. she briefed me about the environment and seems that i can only raise cats, not dogs 😁

torch ginger aka *kecombrang* one of the major herbs grown within Jiwa Jawi, the more than 15,000sqm-garden-home

with neighbours to be after 6-hour chat filled with warmth laughter and experience sharing 💝 I humbly thank you!

A Home before A Home

Learning, Map It!, Poetic

Wondered about home.
Has wandered finding a home.
She’s learnt she’s a home.

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Feel good is feel home wherever she is.

not bored (yet) with this place, d’Omah is my *omah* before my *omah* is fully ready for weekend getaway

Mbah Petruk, you’re not supposed to be in my bathroom – ladies only 😆

Flowers for The Dead

Red rose on white tomb:
Greeting to another world
That sees but says not—

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Nyekar is one tradition that many Javanese still keep until today. Nyekarcomes from the word sekar that means flower. Nyekar is sprinkling flowers on to someone’s tomb as part of a prayer to the loved ones lying under the tomb.

Javanese pin a meaning to the word and activity of nyekar by relating it with the flowers’ fragrance, colours and shapes. The fragrance and beauty of the flowers sprinkled on to the tomb are sent as supplementary to the prayer whispered by those “visiting the dead”. At the same time it is to remind the living that it should be the good deed and memories of the dead to be cherished; bad memories and bad deed should be neutralised through forgiveness — not easy but doable.

Aside from flowers Javanese add boreh as part of the flowers sprinkled. Boreh literally means to spread or to smear cream or paste on to skin. Borehis mixture of ground dlingo (Acorus calamus L) and bengkle or bengle or bangle (Zingiber cassumunar). Dlingo has a kerata basa (acronym) of elingothat means to remember. Bengkle has a kerata basa of becik kelakuane that means good deed. In short, boreh is added to the flowers to emphasize the importance of remembering the good deed of the dead they visit.

What a beautiful visit is made to the dead by those Javanese who understand what they sprinkle on to the tomb of their loved ones.

So, no it is not just beautiful flowers or flowers arrangement; more than that, it is the beautiful meaning that Javanese pinned to the flowers.

Salaam.

the best remembrance is remembrance to the death – I picked one rose from my sister’s garden and put it on my father’s tomb; we don’t miss him as his good deed is always with us

Javanese Hungry Go Where in Yogyakarta

Learning, Map It!

Just in case my kitchen is resting, here is a list of Javanese heaven on earth for my hungry stomach.

💝

Omah Kayu, Jl. Pemuda 234 Wonosari, Gunungkidul
Jejamuran Resto, Sleman
Gubug Makan Mang Engking,
angkringan pmm kaliurang
Sate Klatak Mas Bari Pleret Bantul,
Soto Sulung Cak Alim Jl. Adisucipto
Gudeg Bu Hj Amad,
Gudeg Yu Djum
Gudeg Permata Bu Pujo, buka jam 9 malam, Gudeg Pawon Jl. Kusumanegara, ming buka jam 23:00
Bebek Goreng Cak Koting, kidul jemb layang Lempuyangan,
Bakmi mBah Mo Bantul
Bakmi Kadin,
Bakmi Pele, Alun2 Lor
Ayam Geprek Mbok Moro cabang Terban
Bakmi Jawa Pak Rebo Kintelan,
Mangut Lele Bu Is Jetis
Sate Goreng Ringin Kronggahan,
Bakmi Jawa mBah Hadi Terban,
Sate Ayam Cak Ali – Telogorejo
Kepik Sawah : Jl. Godean KM 9, Senuko, Sidoagung – garang asem n belut balado, limun Tjap Orang Kaya, dll
21.Ayam Goreng Mbok Sabar Jagalan
22.Ayam Goreng Bu. Tini wetan ex Bioskop Permata,
Sate Jono Pakualaman
Kopi Joss dan angkringan di lor Stasiun Tugu
Wedang Uwuh, makam Imogiri,
26.Sego pecel UGM,7
Lotek n Gado2 Teteg, Lempuyangan
Kupat Tahu Pak Budi perempatan SGM,..
Baceman kepala kambing p Kirman di belakang pasar Colombo
Lotek bu Ning di jln Surokarsan
Soto miroso,
Nasgor & magelangan: bakmi doreng, Suryowijayan.
Pecel wader dekat Bandara Adi Sucipto,
Sayur Brongkos “Handayani” (mbak Tri, Alun2 kidul)
Jadah Tempe kaliurang bu carik
Wader Goreng Suko Jl.. Wonosari
Soto kadipiro – Jl. Wates
Gudeg Djuminten Kranggan
Soto Pak Marto, Patangpuluhan
Soto Pak Soleh Tegalrejo
41.Soto Gobyos Wetan Jembatan Gondolayu,
Sate ayam Pak Kromo
Gudeg mercon
Gudeg Tugu
Bakmi Godog P.Juki Blimbingsari
Ayam Geprek Mbok Moro cabang Durenan
Ayam goreng mbah Cemplung, Gunung Sempu, Bantul
Gulai Kambing Pasar Lempuyngan & Jakal km18
Sate Kambing Samsuri Adisucipto
Sate kambing Klatak Pak Pong, Wonokromo Bantul
Sop kaki kambing depan RS Bethesda dan RS Panti rapih.
Sate Ngasem Madukismo
SEA FOOD KATOMBO, Sinduadi Mlati
Bakmi mbak yuni stasiun
Bebek goreng simpatik kranggan
Sate ayam Jl Monjali dpn hotel Tentrem
Nasgor kambing dkt panti rapih
Nasgor Kambing, depanSMA Padmanaba
Wader presto mbak jurri kalibawang
Ingkung Kampung Ndeso, Pajangan Bantul
Tengkleng Gajah di Wedomartani
Mbah Gejrot Wonosari
Nasi merah, empal, sayuran, sambal, dan tempe Bukit Bintang
Bebek Goreng Gejayan Utara
Jejamuan, Ginggang Paku Alaman
Gudeg Cukupan seberang Saphir Square (hanya malam, lesehan)
Soto bu Cip Patangpuluhan
Rantengan bu wiryo beringharjo
Warung masakan Jawa ibu Siput, Gondomanan
Sea food baruna monjali
Nasi Uduk Palagan (utara Monjali)
Ayam Geprek Mbok Moro jl Bantul
Sate Kambing Samirono
Brongkos Bu Padmo Tempel Sleman
Sate ayam Podomoro, Jl. Suryotomo Yogyakarta
Sop ayam kampung Pak Min
Bakso cap Kepala Kambing
Soto Gumyak Selatan PMI Tegalgendu Kotagede
Tongseng Sor Talok Manding Bantul
Telur Tuna Hercules deket fak Teknik UGM
Ramesan Warung Idjo Teteg Lempuyangan
Siomay Mang Mudi Ringroad Per4an Jakal
Siomay Kang Cepot Jakal
Rawon EnaK Ringroad deket RSA UGM
Soto Wonosari Condongcatur
Soto Sapi Mbok Sarbini Piyungan
Soto Ayam tan proyek Wonosari
Soto lenthok dan raja sambel di seturan
Sate dan Tongseng pak Dakir depan pasar Klitikan
Bakmi Tongseng Balungan Sibitsu jln Bantul
Sate Karang Kotagede
Bakso & es teler Pathuk
Seafood & rekreasi anak Banyumili Godean
Waroeng Pohon, Jalan Parangtritis km 6
Gudeg Pawon Janturan
Oseng2 mercon KHA Dahlan
Soto gobyos jl Bayangkara
Ayam Goreng Bacem Code
Kepiting Cak Gundul Jl Palagan
Gudeg Ceker Gejayan
Mangut Lele mbah Marto Geneng Sewon Bantul
Sop janda jogja mlati sleman
DA’IM DONUTS Jl. Kaliurang km 10.
Siomay Kang Ujang, jalan Panjatkan dan jalan Ngasem.
Warung Tongseng Ayam Kampung, Selatan Pasar Bantul
SATE MBAH SO, Kota gede.
SATE PAK MINTO, Jalan Wates.
Bakmi mbah Gito, Pilahan.
Warung Sego abang , jinak Semau Wonosari GK

GUDEG

Gudeg Sagan (mbak Wati), Jalan Prof Johanes, Galeria Mall ke utara.
Gudeg Bu Djuminten: Jl Kranggan 69
Gudeg Bu Pujo (Permata): Jl Gajah Mada 11 (lesehan buka pukul 21.00)
Gudeg Ceker Bu Nining: Jl A Yani 16
Gudeg Ceker Bu Yanti: Jl Monjali
Gudeg Ceker Sedep Raos: Jl Seturan 15 (warung tenda)
Gudeg Cukupan Batas Kota: Jl Solo 28 (lesehan seberang Saphir Square)
Gudeg Geneng Mbah Marto: Dusun Nengahan, Panggungharjo, Sewon, Bantul (belakang kampus ISI)
Gudeg Kentungan: Jl Kaliurang km 5
Gudeg Kuncen Bu Sri: Jl HOS Cokroaminoto (depan Apotik Kimia Farma)
Gudeg Manggar Bu Hendro: Jl Hayam Wuruk (seberang Pasar Lempuyangan)
Gudeg Manggar Pembayun: Mangir, Pajangan, Bantul
Gudeg Mbarek Bu Hj Amad: Utara Selokan Mataram UGM
Gudeg Mercon Ibu Tinah: Jl Asem Gede-Kranggan (buka pukul 20.00)
Gudeg Pawon Jl. Prof Soepomo 36, Janturan (buka pukul 23.00)
Gudeg yu Jum: Wijilan.
Gudeg Tugu Bu Wagiyem: Jl Diponegoro (lesehan)
Gudeg Wijilan Bu Lies: Jl Wijilan 5 (buka 24 jam)
Gudeg Wijilan Bu Nur: Jl Wijilan
Gudeg Wijilan Bu Slamet: Jl Wijilan 17
Gudeg Yu Djum: Utara Selokan Mataram UGM
Gudeg Yu Narni: Jl Kaliurang km 4,5 (lor Kehutanan UGM)
Gudeg Yu Yah: Jl Magelang km 5 (warung tenda kidul Terminal Jombor)
Rantengan Bu Warno: Jl A Yani (lantai 2 Pasar Beringharjo) & Jl Jagalan Beji PA I/43 Pakualaman

BAKMI

Bakmi Pak Furqoni, Jalan Modang Jogokaryan
Bakmi Doring: Jl Suryowijayan 348
Bakmi Jokteng: Perempatan Pojok Benteng Barat
Bakmi Jombor: Jl Magelang km 6,3 (Flyover Jombor)
Bakmi Kadin Mbah Hj Karto: Jl Bintaran Kulon 6
Bakmi Mbah Gito: Jl Nyi Ageng Nis, Rejowinangun
Bakmi Mbah Hadi: SPBU Terban
Bakmi Mbah Mo: Dusun Code, Kulon Perempatan Manding, Bantul
Bakmi mBah Tris Manding Kidul, Trirenggo Bantul.
Bakmi Mbah Wito: Dusun Kemoro Sari 1, Desa Piyaman, Wonosari
Bakmi Mbak Yuni: Jl Wongsodirjan (lor Stasiun Tugu)
Bakmi Pak Geno: Jl Parangtritis km 23 Patalan, Jetis, Bantul
Bakmi Pak Harjo Geno: Pasar Prawirotaman
Bakmi Pak Juki: Jl Yacaranda 1, Sekip (depan Apotik Gajah Mada)
Bakmi Pak Juki: Depan SPBU Sagan
Bakmi Pak Pele: Wetan Pagelaran Kraton, Alun-Alun Lor
Bakmi Pak Rebo: Jl Brigjen Katamso 167, Kintelan
Bakmi Shibishu: Jl Raya Bantul 106
Mie Ayam Mas Yudi: Jl Taman Siswa 158
Bakmi Jozz Krakitan, Ringinharjo, Bantul
Mie Lethek Mbah Mendes: Jl Ringroad Utara (200 meter kulon Lotte Mart)

SOTO

Saoto Bathok Mbah Katro: Jl Candi Sambisari, Purwomartani, Kalasan
Soto Ayam Tan Proyek: Jl Raya Wonosari
Soto Bangkong: Jl Magelang
Soto Betawi Bang Darto: Jl Petung 33, Papringan
Soto Betawi Bang Pitung: Jl Juminahan 12
Soto Bu Cip: Jl S Parman 58
Soto Djiancuk: Jl Tepi Rawa Kalibayam, Sonopakis, Ngestiharjo
Soto Gobyos: Jl Bayangkara
Soto Gumyak: Jl Imogiri Timur (kidul PMI Tegalgendu Kotagede)
Soto Kadipiro: Jl Raya Wates 33 (sebelah kanan jalan arah ke Wates)
Soto Kemasan: Jl Ringroad Selatan, Singosaren (dekat Terminal Giwangan)
Soto Kudus: Jl Monjali (samping SPBU Monjali)
Soto Kudus Gajah Mada: Jl Kaliurang km 8,7
Soto Lamongan Cak Parno: Jl Lembah UGM Karangmalang D28
Soto Lenthok 21: Jl Sugeng Jeroni
Soto Lenthok 42: Jl MT Haryono 42
Soto Lenthok Pak Karjo: Jl Prof Herman Johanes, Sagan
Soto Miroso: Jl Adisucipto 168A
Soto Moneter: Jl Ringroad Timur, Banguntapan (lor perempatan Kotagede)
Soto Pak Marto: Jl Janti, Gedong Kuning (depan JEC)
Soto Pak Marto: Jl S. Parman, Barat Plengkung Taman Sari (200 m kulon bangjo)
Soto Pak Pur: Jl Nitiprayan, Ngestiharjo, Kasihan, Bantul (500 meter kidul IKIP PGRI)
Soto Pak Sholeh Al-Barokah: Jl Wiratama 84, Tegalrejo
Soto Sampah (Uwuh): Jl Kranggan (depan SPBU)
Soto Sapi Mbok Sarbini: Jl Raya Wonosari, Srimulyo (dekat Pasar Piyungan Baru)
Soto Sapi Pak Musthofa: Jl Magelang km 7 (lor Terminal Jombor)
Soto Sapi Pak Sugeng: Jl HOS Cokroaminoto 185
Soto Seger Mbok Giyem: Jl Adisucipto (depan Sheraton Mustika) & Jl Magelang km 8
Soto Sulung Cak Alim: Jl. Adisucipto km 8,5 (depan Grand Quality)
Soto Sulung Pak Malik: Jl Pasar Kembang (Parkiran Selatan Stasiun Tugu)
Soto Sumuk: Jl Jend Sudirman (wetan Jembatan Gondolayu)
Soto Wonosari Mbah Urip: Jl Rajawali Raya 74, Condongcatur
Sop Ayam Kampung Pak Min

SATE

Sate Ayam Cak Ali: Jl Kaliurang km 7
Sate Ayam Cak Amat: Jl Hadidarsono, Kotabaru
Sate Ayam Monjali: Jl AM Sangaji (depan Hotel Tentrem)
Sate Ayam Pak Kromo: Jl Mayor Suryotomo 3
Sate Ayam Podomoro: Jl Mataram 11
Sate Djono: Jl Masjid Pakualaman 7
Sate Goreng Ringin: Kronggahan, Jombor, Mlati (Terminal Jombor ke barat lalu ke utara)
Sate Kambing Mbah Darmo: Jl Solo (wetan bandara)
Sate Kambing Monjali: Jl Monjali 106 (lor bangjo Jembatan UGM)
Sate Kambing Pak Dakir: Jl HOS Cokroaminoto 75 (depan Pasar Klitikan)
Sate Kambing Pak Syamsuri: Jl Anggrek, Sambilegi, Adisucipto
Sate Kambing Samirono: Jl Colombo 105
Sate Karang Pak Prapto: Jl Nyi Pembayun, Lapangan Karang, Kota Gede
Sate Klatak Pak Bari: Pasar Desa Wonokromo, Jl Kedaton, Pleret, Bantul
Sate Klatak Pak Mus: Jl Stadion Sultan Agung, Pleret, Bantul
Sate Klatak Pak Pong: Jl Stadion Sultan Agung, Pleret, Bantul
Sate Klatak Pak Yakut: Ruko Griya Alvita, Jl Wates km 3
Sate Kuda Gondolayu: Jl Jend Sudirman 25 (kulon jembatan)
Sate Kuda Pak Kuntjoro: Jl Kranggan 64A
Sate Ngaglik: Jl Kaliurang km 10 (depan kecamatan)
Sate Ngasem: Jl Keloran, Bugisan, Tirtonirmolo, Ringroad Selatan
Sate Padang Asli: Jl Kaliurang km 5,6 (dekat HokBen)
Sate Padang Mamak Sharil: Jl Sultan Agung, Pakualaman
Sate Padang Salero: Kawasan Stadion Mandala Krida

AYAM

Ayam Asap Kuah Santan: Jl Gito Gati 100 (lor Hotel Hyatt)
Ayam Bakar Bu Ning: Jl Taman Siswa (warung tenda)
Ayam Geprek Mbok Moro
Ayam Bakar MG 22: Jl Sisingamangaraja 22B (seberang Kantor Pos Mergangsan)
Ayam Goreng Bu Tini: Jl Sultan Agung 17, (wetan bekas Bioskop Permata)
Ayam Goreng Kampung Bugisan: Jl Bugisan Selatan 42 (depan SMKI)
Ayam Goreng Mbah Cemplung: Sembungan RT 05 Bangunjiwo, Kasihan, Bantul
Ayam Goreng Mbok Berek Kalasan: Jl Solo km 14,5 (samping Panti Rini Ziekenhuis)
Ayam Goreng Mbok Berek Pawirodikoro: Jl Pugeran Timur 24
Ayam Goreng Mbok Sabar: Jl Jagalan
Ayam Goreng Mentega Lie Djiong: Jl Brigjen Katamso
Ayam Goreng Ninit: Jl C Simanjuntak 20, Terban (depan Karita)
Ayam Goreng Ny Suharti: Perempatan Rejowinangun, Gedong Kuning
Ayam Goreng Pak Ndut: Jl C Simanjuntak 29, Terban
Ayam Goreng Putra Rantau: Jl Wirosaban (wetan rumah sakit)
Ayam Goreng Suharti: Jl Adisucipto (samping turunan Flyover Babarsari)
Ayam Goreng Tojoyo 3: Jl Urip Sumoharjo 133 (depan Empire XXI)
Ayam Kremes Mbak Ning: Jl Gajah Mada 1 (kulon bekas Bioskop Permata)
Ayam Panggang 3 Berku: Jl Kusumanegara 185
Ayam Panggang Bu Ning: Jl Godean km 5
Ingkung Kampung Ndeso Mbah Cempluk: Dusun Santan, Desa Guwosari, Pajangan, Bantul

BEBEK

Bebek Goreng Cak Koting/Bu Meti: Jl Dr Sutomo (kidul Flyover Lempuyangan)
Bebek Goreng Pak Ndut: Jl C Simanjuntak 29, Terban
Bebek Goreng Pak Saring: Dalam Pasar Lempuyangan
Bebek Goreng H Slamet: Jl Pangeran Mangkubumi
Bebek Goreng Pak Slamet: Jl Affandi (Gejayan Utara)
Bebek Goreng Simpatik: Jl Diponegoro (depan Pasar Kranggan)

GADO2/PECEL/LONTONG

Gado-Gado Bu Hadi: Jl A Yani (lantai 2 Pasar Beringharjo)
Kupat Tahu Pak Budi: Jl Kusumanegara (perempatan SGM)
Lontong Sayur Padang: Jl Ipda Tut Harsono, Timoho (dekat RM Barokah)
Lotek Bu Ning: Jl Surokarsan
Lotek MM UGM: Depan MM UGM
Lotek Sagan: Jl Sagan Kidul 23 & Jl Danau Tempe V/8
Lotek Teteg Lempuyangan Bu Is: Jl Argolubang 184 Gg Delima GK IV/196 Baciro (depan SPBU)
Pecel Baywatch Mbah Warno: Kasongan, Bantul
Pecel Lele: Jl Patangpuluhan 21
Pecel Senggol: Jl A Yani (pintu gerbang Pasar Beringharjo)
Pecel SGPC Bu Wiryo 1959: Utara Selokan Mataram UGM
Pecel Wader: Jalan Masuk Bandara Adisucipto

BAKSO/PEMPEK

Bakso Pak Teguh, depan pasar Prawirotaman Yogyakarta (buks sore jam 17.00)
Bethesda: Jl Yohanes Nurhadi (kulon rumah sakit)
Bakso Idolaku: Jl Taman Siswa 138
Bakso Jawi Bu Miyar: Jl Sultan Agung 9
Bakso Kuning Gading: Jl Abubakar Ali 2A, Kotabaru
Bakso Malang Berkah: Jl Nusa Indah, Condong Catur
Bakso Pak Jam: Ironayan, Banguntapan, Bantul (samping masjid)
LODEH WADER – Warung HANYA Jl. Parangtritis km 6,5 (utara kampus ISI),
EMPEK-EMPEK Nonyan Kamto di Malioboro Mal
l dan Selatan Ramai Mall…
-Angkringan RUBY JOGLO
Jalan Nanggulan

And many more….❤

Mother’s Story

Learning, life, Poetic, Those People

Tragic is comic
After fermentation time.
Dark jokes bring bright joy.

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We always remember how our father loved our mother. He liked giving gifts to her and doing household chores like cleaning the floor and doing heavy laundry. Yet he also enjoyed teasing my mother around; his goal was to make her angry just to show that he was good at calming her down. 😂 Yet his strong affection to our mother did one extreme discomfort to her and some of us.

This morning my older siblings asked mother to re-tell a story that we the younger don’t record well as we were too young to save the moment. While they laughed before she started telling the story, we three waited curiously.

Mother: Once I went with my friend to a beauty parlour. She wanted to have her hair cut.

Younger children: With whom?

Mother: (mentioning a name that we are familiar with)

All children: (commenting about mother’s friend who happened to be a very fashionable woman at that time)

Mother: She said that I should have my hair made curly or at least wavy so I could look different. I said no because I should get permission from your father. But you know her, she was able to convince me to do it.

All children: (laughing and commenting about the lady who spent money like she would die today. Mother said that woman got much money from ex husbands so she deserved to do it.) So, curled or waved?

Mother: Medium curled

Older children: (laughing and commenting how she looked fresh but weird as we had never had anyone with curly hair in the family before)

Mother: When I reached home, your father seeing me with curly hair looked surprised. I thought it would be a terrific moment but then it changed to one terrible day. He was so angry, never before he became that angry.

Older children: Ya, I was shocked. Never saw him like that before—

Mother: I was not shocked with his reaction but the next action of his was a biggest discomfort in my life. He said he wanted to make the hair look better which I thought minor trimming and he took a pair of scissors.

Older children: I didn’t expect that to happen. He cut most of the curly hair and only left the one with very vague curls near the headskin. You were almost bald! (laughing) You became so not you.

Me: (upset) Why did’t you run to hide and protect your hair?

Older children: Hey! Don’t be too serious. He didn’t hurt her.

Me: But he hurt her pride! I won’t let my hair be screwed up by anyone.

Older children: I remember mother sobbed and I screamed to father to stop. He didn’t do it harshly, but I felt worried about her sobbing.

Me: Damn wrong thing! I never knew he would have this in the checklist.

Mother: No worry. He regretted and apologized on the same day. And trust me it was the only one bad thing he did to me. He said he didn’t want me to draw attention of other men.

Older children: Jeeeaaaalousy! We know some other things about his jealousy! You should tell more stories.

Mother: I think it was the best lesson for him about how he should not be too possessive.

All children: Yaaa!!! Agree!

Older children: Do you remember that you turned to be a better fashionista than her. I remember you wore turban and sometimes wigs.

Mother: Yes. And I guess he regretted it even more as I asked for different wigs and turbans until my hair was good enough to show.

What a comedy! Oops! What a tragedy turning to comedy after some time!

Lesson learnt: choose the best expression of love to avoid bad impression, don’t have your hair curled 😁, find a husband who doesn’t hate curly hair 😁, forgive your husband’s wrong expression while educating him, and see a comedy in a tragedy

Romance

Learning, love, Poetic

Romantic dim light
Sums up through numbers and codes,
Closes down a hope.

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I wish you happiness. 💝

Good Chat

Learning, life, love, Poetic

Good chirp of two birds
Fill the air with random songs
Above golden trees.

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Time flies when we spend it with those we love. How would I not thank this life for giving me abundance of them? Good to have a holiday at home before spending more holidays outdoor faraway from them after this. 💝

I am blessed. 💝

installation art of two golden birds – good time is a chat of two sisters remembering the sweet and the shit 😊

Be A Dog

Bob, Learning, Poetic

Excitement rises.
A dog runs after food bag
Full of dental sticks.

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If you don’t feel good, walk a dog and run with it when it runs for food. You’ll feel a real excitement. Trust me.

Wishing to feel good every single second like a happy dog. 😁 Prepare good saving of energy!

😁 Vietnam dog is exactly the same as other dogs: toys, food and other dogs

A Cycle

About a nation
That’s almost collapsed and dead.
Life has a cycle.

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Holiday is always a time to have a small discussion about trivial facts that grows to a more serious discussion about bigger things like a damaged bridge topic growing to a discussion about a nation that starts to collapse slowly and surely.

Nothing is forever. Even if you think you are better, smarter, swifter and richer; it will end either with your fall or your death whichever comes first. How cruel! No, that’s just a cycle.

a damaged bridge (a hot yet stupid discussion on the train from Jakarta to Yogyakarta) – I love stupidity 😁

Holiday

Holiday is sweet,
A flashback to early days
Bringing back good vibes.

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2022’s end of year holiday is traveling around cities where nieces and nephews are located. I love listening to unrecorded histories from the elders and laughing around with the young.

Holiday is worth enjoying before going back to where work is worth dedicating.

Salaam.

enjoying every moment with nieces and nephews happy being with me as they won’t be as free with their mothers 😂 – young human beings, just be who you are responsibly, I love you the way you are 😘

Ripple of Sweetness

Small ripple can move a lake. Enough to show gentle beauty. My heart sweetly hums with the wind.

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your vague signs move my heart, not strong enough though to move my head 💝

Sweet Smile

Sweet smile always blooms
To season and deck each day.
Keep it, don’t waste it.

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not the best airline on earth but always one of my favourite airlines 💝 its flight attendants’ genuine smiles remind me that there is always warm heart at home 😊

Instagram Oh My

Gone in some seconds
It is folded between space.
Are you coming back?

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My Instagram was suspended on Oct 31, 2022 (just several minutes ago). The message sent to me told me that I didn’t follow the community guidelines. What? What have I done? I don’t even show myself in not-even-sexy swimsuit which will be the most “porn” I can show public if I must! What other “unguided actions” could I do other than stalking some gorgeous people? 😢

Then I saw a lot of tweets in Twitter complained about the same thing.

Ahhh! Is it the end of Instagram? 😩 Please don’t send me back to Facebook, it is too showy to me.

And then Instagram apologized via Twitter.

And then it is now back with changed number of followers and following. Never mind, the # of posting is the same.

Thank you.

many of IG accounts received this message when logging in tonight

mine after “getting suspended” and it is just like this 😁

My World

My world lies within
Wrapped by the senses without.
A hidden heaven—

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a window nook, where a book turns into a world 🌥️

Tall Tree

There is a tall tree
Greeting the sky with its green,
The earth with its white.

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There is only one choice left: grow! What’s grown within affects what’s grown without and the other way around — all in unison. Liking it or not, I grow as the sole way.

when feet are happily walking, eyes are happily observing 🥰

The Right

What’s right be left not,
Goes along with decent life.
What’s not right? Lesson.

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what if these beautiful fungi grow on human’s skin? just not right!

Feel Good